Somatic Experiencing

The focus of Somatic Experiencing is to renegotiate what wants to be processed in our body and to do so as we stay present within an awareness of our capacity so that we are not re-traumatized.  One of the hallmarks of SE  is to be able to work with a little activation or charge as we honour where the nervous system is in any given moment supporting the ability to integrate the work.  

One way to do this is to slow down movements and storytelling to gage how they can be worked with.  This means that the practitioner may at times interrupt to stay in connection with our inner wisdom that is organized and functional.  It is often in the slowing down of the story-telling that we notice other information become available to guide the experience.  

The unique experiences each of us have, and the best response in any particular moment to relate to these experiences is best resolved when centred from within us - the SE practitioner is a guide along the way to support connection the nervous system so we can in the best way possible move forward in life. 

The framework in SE for the language of working with stress & trauma is SIBAM which stands for:

S - sensations (the primary way of an embodied approach is tracking sensations that we feel in our body)

I - images (often people will experience images or colours as the process unfolds)

B - behaviour (movements of the body that come during the session like hands moving as the person talks)

A - affect or emotion (these come up naturally throughout the session in response to sensations & content)

M - meaning-making or story (memories can arise that help give more context & understanding, and as 

      experiences are integrated, there is an ability within us to take our own meaning from them - even if the 

      circumstance itself is unredeemable, there can be internal strength cultivated as we find our way through)

Identifying our resources is a way to help us stay present so that we have the capacity to be with the process and so that we can integrate the work done in the session.  Each person may have different expressions of resourcing and examples could be: noticing when our body feels freer and letting that be experienced; orienting to something in the room that brings enjoyment like a painting on the wall or the colour of a throw pillow etc.; bringing a beloved pet to mind or a favourite activity -  these resources will be explored with the practitioner during the session.  

 Polyvagal Theory was developed by the the neuroscientist Dr. Stephen Porges and provides a mapping of the states of our autonomic nervous system as we navigate what is supportive (cues of safety) and what is potentially threatening (cues of danger).   It is a useful theory to help us learn to track what it is we need from moment to moment.   

Videos to understand the nervous system and this theory are available on Youtube by Dr. Stephen Porges, Deb Dana and also Irene Lyon.

In an SE session as we learn to stay present to ourselves and respond with care to the states of fight, flight and freeze (experiencing the state and then the shift out of that state).  As we understand this, we can then normalize our experience and feel more range of availability to experiences and relationships in daily living.  The SE session brings awareness and identification of fight, flight and freeze through the practice of engaging consciously with the nervous system so that we can integrate the completion and coherence of these states.

Somatic Experiencing techniques can be used for inquiry, discernment,  finding our purpose, supporting the savouring of life...any time we need to access our inner wisdom to find our way through or to find gratitude in how we are living through a deeper connection with ourselves.